I went to our FRG meeting last night. Partly for the information, and partly because I know I need to step out and try and meet people. That is a big admission for me. I’m not good at it. I never have been. I got lucky in Alaska, my friends all came to me one way or another. So, I admitted to myself that I needed to make the effort. I took a deep breath, and off I went.
Things started out well. Before I knew it I was having a nice conversation about hobbies with one of the wives at my table. I got comfortable. Maybe TOO comfortable. When asked about hobbies and crafts I made the mistake of being honest. I said I wasn’t crafty really, but I enjoy blogging, photography, image editing, and …playing World of Warcraft. POOF! she disappeared like her ass was on fire. It’s the same EVERY. Time.
WoW players, and Gamers in general tend to see this reaction alot. There is a false image of them as basement dwelling creeps with no social life. And do you know what dawned on me? Well no wonder! Every time someone finds out that your hobby is a video game, especially an immersive one like WoW, they jump back like you might burn them. Sure as hell makes me not want to bother trying.
I don’t WANT to make the effort if I have to “lie” about myself. If I can’t be me, I can’t be bothered. And you know what? It’s THEM that will miss out. WoW is a game that thrives on social skills, critical thinking, and ability to work well with others. The things you would THINK you would want in meeting new people.
Yes, I play WoW, I blog, and you know what? I’m good at it, and I love it. I’m also a pretty good photographer, listener, and friend. I’m not going to “leave that out” in a conversation about “what do you enjoy?”. Anymore than I’ll deny having a kickass tattoo, or loving country music. I don’t discriminate against any of them for being years younger than me, or less experienced with the army life. In fact, I could be a hell of an asset, being the kickass hooah army wife that I am, I have alot of knowledge and understanding to offer. I am friggin AWESOME as a matter of fact, and if my playing WoW, and blogging, and in general being a geekish redneckish woman keeps you from seeing it? Well your loss.
But I’ll always be the girl I am
And when Life comes falling down on me I do the best I can
And I never make make apologies cause I don’t give a damn
I guess I’ll always be the girl I am







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